are we special?

i just finished reading a book called 'big girls don't cry'. it has 4 short romance stories about 4 black american ladies. each dont know that love is soon coming knocking on their door. what i like about this book is that the prince charming, and i really mean tall dark and handsome, find them special. they don't feel disgusted by the ladie's size. they find them voluptous, filled up at the right palces and beautiful. though the ladies tell themselves that they are not the type for the men but they were wrong. they were what the men wanted. mind you, the ladies sizes ranges from size 16-24. can you imagine how voluptous? thats america, men dont care what size u are. they just want who u are.

in asia? well i beg to differ. here is totally different. the total opposite.when they see a fat person they go ' pleazzz stay away from me'. they dont find fat ppl special. they find tat we are wide, ugly, an eye sore to them, feel that we are in the way, boring,not like those skinny wearing skimpy clothes. know why we fat ppl dont have fancy clothes? cause there aren't many shops catering for the plus size females.

i bet u guys have seen westerners coming to singapore for holiday. most of them are plus size and when they go shopping they just buy bags or objects but no clothes. i really feel sorry for them cause they are just wasting their money coming here getting nothing when they could go back to their country buying clothes.

fat ladies are no different than slim ladies. we can be bitchy, we have tempers, we have attitude we can be funny and we know how to party. we are special than the skinny girls. there are soo much skinny girls in asia that i find them too common. plus size ladies are different. i find that some are sexy in the way they dress. they could show off their boobs without wearing a push up bra. they feel confidant in themselves now and some even have a gorgeous bf!

now who say that we aren't special?