Not racist. never

A black man wanted to be my lover. cause i told him that i have a man who is abroad now. (which is fake. I even told him he's from philipines..i have to fake it know..)

I turned him down cause im racist. actually no. cause many yrs back i was traumatised by an african man. So traumatised that I have a phobia of seeing black men anywhere in Spore.

So I'm just being cautious here. Not racist. Eh but he lives in a condo in bukit timah, and drives.. but still a no no for me.. If he was a white/ABC/ ABK (american born korean) I would maybe consider it..


"someday I might, find myself looking in your eyes, but for now we'll go on living, seperate lives"